Check them out.
In my tragically left wing county, overflowing with women who vote based on gender alone, I've spent the last 2 days lurking around in gatherings, listening to their ridiculous outrage. But I've discovered that there are a few women who didn't support Clinton, who hang back from the whining conversation. When I ask, in a bright smiling voice "How are YOU today?" and get the reply of "I'm FINE", I know I've found a sane person. It's sort of like a secret handshake.